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  Are we here for each other ? To support each other ? through crisis ?

  by smiddy in

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  a poster who joined this site some five years ago , luo bou to , and offered his two cents worth , so to speak , about his experinces , and spiralling downfall to his marriage and faith and how it had left him , posted a number of posts ?

  about his journey ?

  and gained a great deal of satisfaction and solidarity from this site.. use the search engine for his previous posts .

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  Luo bou to

  I am ok smiddy appreciate your concern though like to ring you I will share a thought I had while teaching in china grew to love the chinese very family orientated and hospitable the thought? If Jehovah is going to kill these people because they havn't read a wt then he is a bastard and not worth knowing
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  Get well Grace (Mouthy)

  by label licker in

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  a loud get well grace from all of us to you.

  everyone, grace has been in and out of the hospital and i'm sure she would love to read your get wells.

  we miss you grace:) wish i could post pictures.

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  Luo bou to

  Ibeen a while since i posted mouthy stroke has made me an invalid why me why not would not wish this on anyone else anyway mum we cant lose live or die i like the idea that heaven is a half pipe with Jesus packing my bong. I know go to my room Love you Bob
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  My Wife & I Came Across our Niece in the street today....Am I shunned ? Apostate ? or not ?

  by smiddy in

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  it was quite unexpected , we were walking my mil`s dog when we saw my neice up ahead , after leaving a morning meeting oh ,theirs xxxx , ( what will we do ,what will she do ?

  ) my wife who is a genuinely loving person , with good pr i might add , unhesitatingly welcomes and embraces her as a long lost freind/relative , my neice reciprocates ,saying" i miss you, i really miss you "to my wife then turns to me and says i miss you too uncle xxxx , and embraces me also , saying i miss you both .

  (reading between the lines come back to the meetings ) just the way she said it .. a week ago the witnesses bypassed my house as they went d2d , ?

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  Luo bou to

  you have mail
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  Coroner's insight re real reason for refusing transfusion death

  by Luo bou to in

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  http://news.ninemsn.com.au/article.aspx?id=8372556.

  quote from coroner "i accept that this doctrine has been an entrenched principle of the jehovah witness religion since 1945 despite considerable debate.. "nevertheless, mrs allen's death most graphically illustrates the consequence of the rigid adherence to that doctrine and brings me to recommend, perhaps forlornly, that the jehovah witness governing body and its elders give consideration to a relaxation of its doctrine".

  now there's one judge that doesn't buy the only following his bible trained conscience bullshit.

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  Luo bou to

  http://news.ninemsn.com.au/article.aspx?id=8372556

  Quote from Coroner "I accept that this doctrine has been an entrenched principle of the Jehovah Witness religion since 1945 despite considerable debate.

  "Nevertheless, Mrs Allen's death most graphically illustrates the consequence of the rigid adherence to that doctrine and brings me to recommend, perhaps forlornly, that the Jehovah Witness Governing Body and its elders give consideration to a relaxation of its doctrine"

  Now there's one judge that doesn't buy the only following his bible trained conscience bullshit
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  I wish I was dead ...

  by talesin in

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  not much to follow that .... day-umn, life is hard sometimes .... .

  feel free to encourage me ... i need it.. .

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  Luo bou to

  I can't open that utube so I don't know the full story. While I don't wish I was dead I struggle at times with the thought that it wouldn't bother me too much if I was told that I would die tomorrow. I suspect that I have dysthymia and that it set in after I woke up from the WT deceit with the subsequent loss of my marriage ,family, financial security and death of my daughter. I know this may sound strange but I do enjoy living it's just that at times I relate to the thoughts of the song "Is this all there is to life"

  Then I think of the movie Life of Brien and their hanging on the cross singing " Always look on the bright side of life"

  Lots of hugs and empathy for you Talesin

  Bob
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  2 months dating and

  by Dudu in

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  i would like to buy him a gift for the 2 months.... nothing cheese or that would mean toooooo much, .... im lost lol some advice?

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  Luo bou to

  After a session in the sack girl asks boyfriend why there are shelves of stuffed toys beside the bed to which he replies " you may choose one from the second shelf."
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  Not that you'll miss me but...

  by Aussie Oz in

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  i will be off the board for the next 10 days.... off to sunny brisbane tomorrow!

  warm brisbane.. 3 days driving up ... 3 days at the country's top rockabilly/psychobilly festival.... 3 days driving down.

  and when i get back i'll want to catch up on all the best posts...somebody mark em for me please!

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  Luo bou to

  Bring a jumper anyway OZ We've had some cold nights Bob
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  Photo - NH Knorr President of Watchtower Society, Chicago 1955

  by VM44 in

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  download now if you want to save this photo!

  it will not remain online for very long!.

  nh knorr president of watchtower society chicago 1955. source: detroit news photo archive.

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  Luo bou to

  Godrulz In your efforts to evangelize you come across with the same opinionated arrogance that I had as a witness It's very annoying. If nothing else you've shown me what a right royal pain in the ass I must have been And I don't need some outsider who can never truly understand in effect telling me that there must have been something wrong with me for being involved in a cult.
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  Do You Have ABANDONMENT ISSUES?

  by sizemik in

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  through being "kept busy", jw parents can become emotionally distanced from their children, thus creating abandonment issues which manifest themselves later in adult life.

  have a read of the following article .

  i have highlighted some critical comments which may be applicable to being raised as a jw.. have you been affected by abandonment issues?.

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  Luo bou to

  I'm the rescuer type with the need to be needed and have been drawn into several futile romantic relationships with BPD's who have strong abandonment fears. My early childhood experience was never being good enough.

  What I consistently heard as a JW from the literature and the platform was your not good enough. No matter how hard you tried it was never enough They would quote that scripture from one of the minor prophets that Maybe you will be saved during the big A

  I believe that JW kids will sense that their parents love if you can call it love is conditional and develop fears of abandonment. How can any parent disown their kids when they don't buy into the bullshit and say it's because they love them
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  C.O. visit means...stumping apostasy!

  by RagingBull in

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  this week, our c.o.

  is visiting the cong.

  great.

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  Luo bou to

  Free gift that you have to work for. Is that what we call an oxymoron? Me thinks you would have to be a moron to swallow that line of reasoning.